Christian Life: Flat as a Pancake?

1. Yes I can. it happens between my brother Zak and me. Its because we fight over whose the better son. If Jesus was there watching as doing that id stop from just a blink of an eye. 
2. We'll to be respectful to others, don't argue with you're elders and be kind with other people around even though its you're enemy.
3. Its when a bad friend asks me to smoke . I'd refused to even thing of doing such a poisonous act.